In a way, to answer a friends' question...

[davywavy]

How many of these words would you say apply to me.
Please give reasons & examples.

Mean
thoughtless
cruel
manipulative
greedy
shallow
deceptive
self involved
moody
arrogant
amoral
judgmental
a user
stubborn
two faced
grasping
difficult
vain

Comments

[borusa.livejournal.com]

manipulative
You've got a decent enough understanding of how people work, and you aren't (unlike me) afraid to use it to acheive your ends. Personally, I tend not to think of this as a bad thing in and of itself - it depends on your ends!

vain
You give the impression of being very....impressed with yourself. Now, I don't entirely know how true that is, but I'd still apply this to you.

That's about it. I thought about "deceptive" but realised it was probably inaccurate.