In a way, to answer a friends' question...

[davywavy]

How many of these words would you say apply to me.
Please give reasons & examples.

Mean
thoughtless
cruel
manipulative
greedy
shallow
deceptive
self involved
moody
arrogant
amoral
judgmental
a user
stubborn
two faced
grasping
difficult
vain

Comments

[puddingcat.livejournal.com]

A friend's question? Blimey {blinks}.

I'd say they depend on who you're with, or talking about, or similar. The ones I could answer definitively are:

thoughtless - only sometimes, never intentionally.
cruel, shallow, deceptive, two-faced - no. Not at all.
amoral - depends on your definition. You aren't according to mine.

The othes, I usually agree with why you're being, for example, vain - someone could acuse you of that for saying Diablerie on the Orient Expres is fantastically brilliant, but I'd say that doesn't count because it's justified.

And you missed out "lovely". Which you are :p