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Sep. 13th, 2004 02:07 pmDoes anyone have any Gmail codes I can have?
Sep. 13th, 2004
A man goes to the opticians.
"Doctor", he says. "I'm worried about my eyesight."
The optician examines him for a few moments and says: "You're going to have to stop masturbating."
The man looks shocked. "Why? Is it damaging my eyes?"
"No", replies the optician. "You're upsetting the other customers."
"Doctor", he says. "I'm worried about my eyesight."
The optician examines him for a few moments and says: "You're going to have to stop masturbating."
The man looks shocked. "Why? Is it damaging my eyes?"
"No", replies the optician. "You're upsetting the other customers."
Sometimes...
Sep. 13th, 2004 10:28 pmAt the end of the street on which I live, there is a wall which comes to about chest height on me. A cat sits on the top of the wall seemingly all the time, plainly having learned that it is ideally positioned to catch passers-by and, by turning up the cuteness factor, get some transient affection. I'm usually suckered by this approach and as I was strolling past the other day I saw the cat was there - being petted by a girl in (I'd say) her mid-twenties.
Not being one to pass up the opportunity to strike up conversations with random womenfolk in the street I went up and started to make a fuss of the cat as well, and used the simpering feline as an excuse to say hello.
Within ten seconds I knew, instictively, that I wanted nothing to do with this woman.
I can't say what it was, but there was something that all my instincts rebelled against; something about her expression, her posture, what she said? All three? Something else? I couldn't tell you, but I just knew that I didn't want to talk to her. Instead I wanted to rudely turn and walk briskly away.
Naturally I didn't - I politely chatted for a few moments before bidding her good-day and wandering off. But I watched my reflection in the windows I passed, just to make sure she wasn't following me. She was that disconcerting.
What is it that tells us these things? What sends these messages to our brains when we meet other people? Why is it some people just seem to us to be people we can talk to and even trust on short acquaintance, whilst with some others all our nerves scream at us to make for the hills?
Of course, it's subliminals. Cues which we can't even consciously recognise from the other person but our hind-brain monkey, evolved to survive environments where getting it wrong about the intentions of others meant almost certain death sees the cues - and reacts to them.
Modern society is forcing us to supress these instincts, but it's very telling just how often people will say that they 'just knew' there was something odd about old so-and-so, just as the police show up to cart them off and dig up the fifty gallon drums in the garden. Most of the time we're inclinded to think that these claims are spurious, after the fact rationalisation but it's true that, at some level, we can tell when something is up.
I really must start to listen to my instinctive reactions more. I think they have a lot to tell me.
Not being one to pass up the opportunity to strike up conversations with random womenfolk in the street I went up and started to make a fuss of the cat as well, and used the simpering feline as an excuse to say hello.
Within ten seconds I knew, instictively, that I wanted nothing to do with this woman.
I can't say what it was, but there was something that all my instincts rebelled against; something about her expression, her posture, what she said? All three? Something else? I couldn't tell you, but I just knew that I didn't want to talk to her. Instead I wanted to rudely turn and walk briskly away.
Naturally I didn't - I politely chatted for a few moments before bidding her good-day and wandering off. But I watched my reflection in the windows I passed, just to make sure she wasn't following me. She was that disconcerting.
What is it that tells us these things? What sends these messages to our brains when we meet other people? Why is it some people just seem to us to be people we can talk to and even trust on short acquaintance, whilst with some others all our nerves scream at us to make for the hills?
Of course, it's subliminals. Cues which we can't even consciously recognise from the other person but our hind-brain monkey, evolved to survive environments where getting it wrong about the intentions of others meant almost certain death sees the cues - and reacts to them.
Modern society is forcing us to supress these instincts, but it's very telling just how often people will say that they 'just knew' there was something odd about old so-and-so, just as the police show up to cart them off and dig up the fifty gallon drums in the garden. Most of the time we're inclinded to think that these claims are spurious, after the fact rationalisation but it's true that, at some level, we can tell when something is up.
I really must start to listen to my instinctive reactions more. I think they have a lot to tell me.